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I'm back! A fter a quieter season focused on rest, reflection, and recharging, I’m ready to share what’s been unfolding behind the scenes. After months of growth and quietly dreaming bigger, Lost in Girl Bossness is officially transforming into: Why the Change? When I launched Lost in Girl Bossness , I was in a place of searching, navigating life after trauma and rebuilding my sense of self. The name fit that moment: it was about being “lost,” but determined to find light, community, and...

Today is my birthday. Turning 41 feels different. Not in the big, celebration kind of way, but in the quiet, grounded, “I’ve lived a lot and I’m still here” kind of way. It’s a moment of stillness, looking back at all the versions of myself that got me here. There’s the rebellious teenage girl who thought she had it all figured out. Then there’s the heartbroken one who had to start from scratch. And let’s not forget the woman who learned to build a life from the ashes. Each of these versions...

Understanding the Emotional Turmoil The hours afterwards are mostly a blur. I remember my friend taking me back to her place. She got me into her bed, wrapped me in a big blanket, and asked me to please rest. I was so emotionally drained from the experience that I passed out under that heavy blanket and slept. Some moments, though, are burned into my memory with painful clarity. Like the weight of my phone in my hand as I started telling people what I never imagined I’d have to say: He was...